Can you tell that I am spending way too much time on E bay ?

We all have our little pet peeves and though I have my share plus some, I try not to make this site simply a place to vent. With this in mind I should move on and do something else ( like look on E bay) but I have bought sixteen things since a week before Christmas so I hope you , my deer readers understand.

To all E bay sellers with the CYA feedback policy,
Because I have made sixteen recent E bay purchases, all of them paid for within minutes of winning them, One would expect that my feedback score would have went up by at least ( Oh I don't know)maybe at least ten. Honestly I know that some people are just happy to have unloaded their items for cash and could care less if anyone else knows that I am an awesome buyer who pays super fast, but I would think that these people are the minority as I see many who have E bay stores and E bay is a little more than selling Grandma's Christmas gift that isn't even your size. Anyway, though I am reasonable,I expect more than the four feed backs that I got. It wouldn't even be so bad but what really burns me up is the sellers who leave no feedback send a note with my product ( an E mail would take way too much time ya know) that tells me how much they value me . Then to add insult to injury they tell me that they hope that I like my purchase and their service enough to leave them feedback, and if I do then they will leave me the same. WHAT????????? I did my part in paying you promptly and you did nothing . I then am at your mercy for packaging my item properly, sending it to me in a timely manner, and I must trust that you have not messed me over on shipping charges ( yes charging me $15 when the postage is only $2 is messing me over ! A $13 handling charge is neither justified nor ethical) If all of the stars Aline and you do all of this right, then I should give you feedback with the faith that you will do the same? You have got to be joking ! My translation of all of this is that If you give me my deserved feedback and then you misrepresented the item or packaged it poorly or charged me $15 and then sent it in an envelope with a .44 stamp and I give you feedback representing it.... then you can't get mad and post lies which pull my excellent buyer rating down. Well to you buyers who want to unjustly CYA , you will get no feedback until you give some. I did my part and I want my gold star. If you don't give... you don't get... well at least you will not get positive from me.( if you are a over charger where postage is concerned, I just may tell all ) I am putting money in your pocket not vise versa ! I will also keep track of who you people are and will under no circumstances buy from you again and even though you may not be trashed on E bay's feedback, you may just find your name on an Ebay do not buy from this seller list. So you might want to reconsider your CYA policy and play fair !